Are you focused on your dreams?
Do you know what they are? Your dreams want to be lived, that's why you have them.
There is a place between thought and emotion. It's the Prerogative Point.
Having a thought is like being in your car traveling with the windows up.
And then there is an in-between time. The Prerogative Point. The point where you (and not just women!) have the prerogative to choose.
After that there is the moment when you attach the thought to an emotion (or emotions). You may do this without conscious awareness. However, now you know about it, you will start to see how it works.